Baby

I and itself

Most of parents thinks that teenagers already not so need love and caress, as small children.

But it is incorrect.

Teenagers very need both love, and caress, both support, and care though because of their natural aspiration to independence they sometimes behave so as if to them it to anything.

I and itself gave in to this delusion in a case with Carrie.

Its eighteenanniversary practically coincided with leaving school.

I subconsciously connected it and with the termination of the childhood, with its transformation into the independent adult.

Begin with

It is impossible to overestimate importance of such rules which will allow you to look in his eyes as much as possible positive.

Begin with the exaggerated severity to have opportunity to encourage the teenager, weakening it.

If you grant at once it all rights, will remain with anything.

You will have nothing to reward the teenager when he starts becoming more and more responsible.

And that is even worse, you will not be able to teach him to arrive so that to him trusted, will not be able to explain to him as it is important to be able to be responsible for himself.