He seeks
That does he want?
Whether it is feasible?
Whether it is reasonable?
Whether somebody gave suffering or pain to the child?
Often the desire of the child is not reasonable and possible.
He seeks to be more senior, or to possess the bigger power, or to use a bigger freedom of action, or to have more money.
His behavior can reflect hormonal changes in an organism.
Perhaps, with it strangers unfairly managed, or he wants to take the same advantages, as some of his friends.
If, however, you know that became the reason of pain or chagrin, and if God forbid!
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