Why? Because
Why?
Because you think that it is necessary to edify and specify mainly in the sphere of that not too and important and will not do harm to the girl.
You start all the time sawing the daughter for the untidy room, hoping that it, eventually, will reject the negative attitude and will tidy up it.
However for it it would be much better to stick to passive and aggressive behavior in relation to a disorder in the room, than to direct it against spirituality or to neglect occupations at school.
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